
Joseph and Patrick
We're looking to adopt a baby
Hello! We are Pat and Joe, and we want to thank you for taking the time to read our profile. We absolutely understand what an undertaking it must be to consider such a difficult decision. We can assure you that we do not take the decision lightly and know that whichever path you choose will be the right one for you and the child. We are honored just to be considered.
We met in May of 2010 through mutual friends. When we first met, Pat got nervous and ended up leaving quickly. After getting over the initial hurdle, we began hanging out frequently and traveling together on cruises and other trips. We attended concerts and began spending holidays with each other and each other's families. We bonded over shared hobbies like baking and exercise. As time passed, we became closer and started officially dating in October 2020. We got married in October 2024!!
Through the pandemic and beyond we have grown as a couple, supporting each other's goals and aspirations. Our family has grown from the two of us and our two dogs (Teddy, a bulldog Shar-Pei mix, and Hugo, a cocker spaniel) to including our son, Evan. Joe adopted Evan when he was born in September 2018. We want to expand our family further as we both come from families with multiple children and want our family to have a similar structure.
Financial Support
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
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Navigating a pregnancy alone is never easy. Depending on your situation and location, you may qualify for financial assistance to help cover the cost of basic living expenses, such as food and groceries.
Medical Expenses
Receiving quality medical care during your pregnancy is vital to both your health and the health of your baby. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your pregnancy-related medical expenses will be covered by the adoptive family.
Rent & Utilities
Women who choose to place their baby for adoption may receive financial assistance to help cover the cost of rent and utilities. If you feel that you'll need some help with these costs, it's important to talk to your adoption social worker about it early in the process.
Household Items
In order to have a healthy pregnancy, it's important that you have everything you need to lead a healthy lifestyle. The cost of some household items may be covered during your pregnancy.
Counseling
Placing a baby for adoption is a loving but incredibly challenging decision. Many women experience a range of emotions during this time and find that counseling is very helpful.
Transportation
If you need assistance with transportation, your adoption social worker can help you find the best solution. You may be eligible for help with transportation costs.
Blogs

Beautiful day out
Spring is our favorite time of year to be out enjoying the weather and playing outside with Evan. He LOVES to be on th...

Wedding Day
Pat and I are sooo excied to finally be married. Our wedding was back on October 25th, our theme was Nightmare before C...

Bubbles!!
We love to play outside with the dogs and BUBBLES!!

Zoo!
What a beautiful day for the zoo. So many animals to see, we love the penguins the best.
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Glimpses
Our photos will be available here as soon as we upload some. We're excited to share glimpses of our life with you!